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Discover the power of asking 'Am I building or diminishing?' This simple question, practiced for 3 years, transforms interactions and leadership. #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #SelfImprovement #Mindfulness

The Firefighter lives in crisis mode, rescues everything, and burns out the team. Heroics feel needed, strategy builds calm.

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#Leadership, #Burnout, #ToxicWorkplace, #LeadershipSkills

A leader realized they were a 'cheerleader' at work but a 'driver' at home. This simple grid revealed their patterns, offering a life-changing path to better connect with their daughters and colleagues. #LeadershipArchetypes #SelfReflection #Parenting #WorkLifeBalance #EmotionalIntelligence

The Imposter collects certificates to prove worthiness and plays small to stay safe. Promotion goes to the brave, not the most qualified.

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#careergoals #imposter #selfimprovement #impostersyndrome

A leader's role is to foster growth, not diminish confidence. While 'sanding down an ego' might be necessary for development, intentionally making someone feel less capable or valued is never productive. #LeadershipSkills #TeamBuilding #Management #ProfessionalGrowth

The Perfectionist treats low-priority admin like high-stakes strategy. Stuck in analysis paralysis, behind on KPIs, running on empty.

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#workplace #leadership #selfimprovement

As a father, realizing every word spoken to a son during a tough job search can either build him up or tear him down. This led to a profound understanding of leadership communication. #Parenting #Leadership #Communication #JobSearch #Family

Doing my best Mrs Merton voice.

Recognise anyone who fits The Micro-Controller profile? This saboteur unintentionally creates bottlenecks, kills morale, and exhausts everyone. Control feels safe, but trust builds speed.

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#Leadership, #Micromanagement, #BadBoss, #StellyTheLeadershipSaboteur

A leader's choice: build up or tear down. One man's poignant realization about impacting his daughters' lives, mirroring the critical, yet positive, demands of effective leadership. #Leadership #TeamBuilding #PositiveLeadership #SelfReflection

Are you building your people or diminishing them with every conversation?

Join Estelle Read with Doug Crandall, Head of Teaching at The Referent Group and author of Building or Diminishing.

Discover a simple, human lens for leadership visibility, personal branding and thought leadership that helps you expect excellence while growing calm confidence in others.

What You Will Learn:
💡 How to tell if you are building or diminishing people in daily moments
💡 The four styles, Builder, Driver, Cheerleader, Belittler, and what each creates
💡 How to be unapologetically demanding and relentlessly positive at once
💡 How to build confidence while still asking for high standards
💡 How to spot your default style at work and at home, and close the gap
💡 Three simple moves, reflection, one clear action, and honest feedback, to grow as a Builder

Here's to your leadership development and personal growth!

Estelle Read, Bestselling Author, Leadership Coach & Host of Optimising Leader Brilliance

Chapters below 👇
00:00 Episode Highlights
00:48 Host Welcome
01:14 Meet Doug Crandall
02:24 The Four Leadership Instincts
14:58 Subscribe
15:19 The Belittler & The Builder
29:12 Three Strategies & Resources
30:07 Strategy 1: Building or Diminishing?
42:21 Pause, Reflect, Act
42:52 Coaching Questions
44:12 Outro & Disclaimer

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