How to Process Failure Without Spiralling (TOP ACT Method)

Yesterday I auditioned for TEDx and honestly, it didn't go as planned. I'm sharing what happened because the best learning comes from moments like these. In this episode, I walk you through my TOP ACT method - a powerful tool I use personally and with clients to process failure, silence imposter syndrome, and transform disappointment into growth. This isn't about perfection; it's about learning how to bounce back stronger.

What You Will Learn:
💡 A framework to stop spiralling after setbacks – Learn the exact journaling method that helps you process negative emotions and move from rumination to action

💡 Why your brain sabotages you in high-pressure moments – Discover how to identify the hidden triggers that derail your performance (even when you're fully prepared)

💡 The secret to turning failure into fuel – Find out how to extract powerful lessons from disappointing experiences without getting stuck in self-criticism

Here’s to your leadership development and personal growth!

Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction
(02:37) Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast
(05:17) Yesterday's TEDx Audition Experience
(08:19) My Four-Year Journey to Become a TEDx Speaker
(11:37) The Reality Check: 30 Applications on Average
(14:39) Stage Three: The 10-Minute Audition
(19:11) When Things Went Wrong: The Moment I Got Triggered
(23:59) Post-Audition Feelings: Disappointment and Frustration
(27:05) Introducing the TOP ACT Journaling Process
(29:27) The Science Behind Journaling for Emotional Processing
(32:00) The TOP ACT Method
(65:57) Final Reflections: Learning, Growing, and Sharing
(68:26) Outro and Resources

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