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I put these statements together for a client, which made me think about this time of year, when we take stock. However, New Year's Resolutions tend to be focused on attaining tangible outcomes.
What about who we want to become?
I can't remember where I heard this statement, 'I am a person who...' but I like it and I've added it to my affirmations.
In 2025 it has been, 'I am a person who is focused and consistent', when it comes to my work rhythms and it's helped massively. Returning to the reminder - especially when things don't work first time, fail or I've faced hurdles has helped me stay on track.
We become what we repeatedly think...
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#WhoDoYouWantToBe
#Affirmations
#SelfBelief
Why Your Christmas Table Feels Like the Boardroom: How to Handle a Difficult Person
I dive into the fascinating parallels between family dynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at home and at work.
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#OptimsingYourBrilliancePodcast
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Why Your Christmas Table Feels Like the Boardroom: How to Handle a Difficult Person
I dive into the fascinating parallels between family dynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at home and at work.
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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Doing what matters at the start, middle and end of the day.
Making adjustments when we get off track. Finding purpose.
Then stopping. Taking it all in. Breathing. Enjoying
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#DoWhatYouLove
#Gratitude
#Findthebeauty
#Purpose
Why Your Christmas Table Feels Like the Boardroom: How to Handle a Difficult Person
I dive into the fascinating parallels between family dynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at home and at work.
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#DifficultPeople
#DifficultConversations
Why Your Christmas Table Feels Like the Boardroom: How to Handle a Difficult Person
I dive into the fascinating parallels between family dynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at home and at work.
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#OptimsingYourBrilliancePodcast
#FamilyDynamics
#TeamDynamics
#DifficultPeople
#DifficultConversations
Why Your Christmas Table Feels Like the Boardroom: How to Handle a Difficult Person
I dive into the fascinating parallels between family dynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at home and at work.
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#OptimsingYourBrilliancePodcast
#FamilyDynamics
#TeamDynamics
#DifficultPeople
#DifficultConversations
Why Your Christmas Table Feels Like the Boardroom: How to Handle a Difficult Person
I dive into the fascinating parallels between family dynamics at the Christmas table and the behaviours we see in meetings and the boardroom. Drawing from real-life coaching experiences and powerful psychological models, I’ll help you recognise old patterns, understand your triggers, and give you practical tools to handle difficult people both at home and at work.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover the hidden connections between your childhood roles and your professional life - insights that will change how you see yourself and others.
💡 Learn practical, science-backed strategies to handle challenging family or workplace dynamics, so you can stay calm, confident, and in control.
💡 Unlock actionable coaching models that empower you to break free from old patterns and create more positive, productive relationships
Here’s to your shining!
Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker
Timestamps:
00:00) Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast
(01:00) Meet your host and coach, Estelle Read
(01:30) Why family and boardroom dynamics are so similar
(03:00) Classic roles at the Christmas table - and what they mean
(05:00) How childhood experiences shape adult behaviour
(08:00) Real-life coaching stories: triggers and transformation
(12:00) Why is this person behaving this way? Discover what lies beneath the surface.
(15:00) How we get caught up in ‘drama’ and how to get out of it
(18:00) Why people try to control you and other throws a ‘tantrum’
(21:00) Giving feedback that works - at home and at work
(24:00) Practical tips for a stress-free Christmas (and career)
(27:00) Final thoughts and how to connect with Estelle
⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.
⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:
Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/...stelleRead/podcasts
⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/
Instagram: www.instagram.com/estelle.at.beee
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee
Facebook: FB.com/EstelleAtBeee/
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⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:
estelleread.com/resources/
⭐ Work with Estelle Read:
Find out more about our coaching programmes:
🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: estelleread.com/...coaching-programme/
🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: estelleread.com/...adership-programme/
⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:
Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH
⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:
Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r
⭐Book Recommendation:
Birth Order: What Your Position In The Family Really Tells You About Your Character: amzn.eu/d/5Fp271J
⭐Disclaimer:
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
🔍 Looking for insights on carving out a unique career path? Tune in to the latest Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast with Andrew Whitehead, who shares how bravery and authenticity led to his success. Perfect for aspiring leaders!
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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🌈 Discover the secret to embracing challenges and unlocking your potential with Andrew Whitehead on the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast! 🎙️ Learn how to stand out and thrive in your career. Don't miss out!
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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How can unexpected opportunities shape a career? Hear from Andrew Whitehead on the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast as he discusses serendipity, resilience, and the power of being different. Listen now for inspiration and growth tips!
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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🎧 Ready to build a meaningful career? Join Andrew Whitehead as he shares his inspiring journey of overcoming challenges and embracing authenticity on the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast. Tune in for actionable advice and motivation!
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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🌟 Dive into the journey of Andrew Whitehead on the latest episode of the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast! 🚀 Discover how to turn serendipity into success and embrace your authentic self in any career.
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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Check out the latest episode of Optimising Your Brilliance! Listen to the full podcast here https://play.headliner.app/podcast/8dba297af85f471090d1d1a391b13241/episode/0605944e-0b31-4e7b-885b-d1f3028593dc
The Power of Being Different: Andrew Whitehead on Authentic Success in Law & Life
The first time I saw Andrew Whitehead, he was accompanying Sarah Walker-Smith, on the piano. It was lockdown and Sarah was singing from her office cabin she affectionately called the ‘shed’. As Senior Partner and CEO of Shakespeare Martineau, they were lifting the spirits of their colleagues.
What struck me was the bravery, beauty and authenticity of their performance. Doing something totally different, putting themselves out there, and demonstrating poise, calm and leadership during stressful times. So, it was great to chat with Andrew where we got under the surface of leveraging what makes you different to advance your leadership career.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover the Power of Serendipity - How chance encounters shaped Andrew’s career and how you can spot and seize similar opportunities.
💡 Overcome Fear and Embrace Challenge - Strategies for stepping outside your comfort zone, from leadership to public speaking.
💡 The Value of Being Different - Why standing out and authenticity can be your greatest asset in any field.
💡 Resilience Through Adversity - Lessons from personal and professional challenges, including a health scare, on focusing what matters.
💡 Actionable Growth Advice - Practical tips for building strong teams, finding renewed purpose, and thriving on your journey.
Here’s to your shining!
Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker
Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast
(01:04) Meet Andrew Whitehead: Career Highlights & Background
(03:11) The Role of Serendipity in Career Development
(06:24) Overcoming Fear and Embracing Challenges
(09:40) The Value of Being Different in Law and Life
(13:00) Building Teams and Avoiding Self-Sabotage
(16:40) Resilience Through Health Challenges
(20:00) Advice for Facing Adversity and Finding Purpose
(23:45) Pearls of Wisdom & Final Thoughts
(24:35) Outro and How to Connect
⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.
⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:
Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/...stelleRead/podcasts
⭐Follow Andrew Whitehead:
www.linkedin.com/...hiteheadmartineau/
www.shma.co.uk/
⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/
Instagram: www.instagram.com/estelle.at.beee
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee
Facebook: FB.com/EstelleAtBeee/
X: x.com/EstelleAtBeee
⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:
estelleread.com/resources/
⭐ Work with Estelle Read:
Find out more about our coaching programmes:
🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: estelleread.com/...coaching-programme/
🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: estelleread.com/...adership-programme/
⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:
Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH
⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:
Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r
⭐Disclaimer:
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
You know those people who seem to do it all? My next guest does just that: five children, a partner, four dogs, and three books, plus she’s built a beautiful home on Lake Windermere. She now runs The Heaning Estate, a beautiful collection of dwellings she renovated, which you can stay in.
How does she make it all possible?
Deborah shares the secrets to her success: bravery, dream-driven ambition, and the discipline to take consistent steps – even when fear or doubt shows up.
Deborah’s daily routine and wellbeing priority prove you can do it all. In this episode, she pulls back the curtain on life as an author and businesswoman.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Deborah’s daily habits that boost productivity while safeguarding wellbeing.
💡 Real-life lessons from building a business, writing books, and balancing family life.
💡 Learn how embracing fear and discipline, can unlock new levels of creativity and business success.
🎙️Listen Here estelleread.com/podcast/
📺 Watch here: youtube.com/@estelleread
🔎 Or search for the ‘Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast’
#DeborahLyon
#OptimisingYourBrilliance
#WomenInBusiness
#MindsetMatters
#Inspiration
How to Create a Morning Routine for a Productive Day with Deborah Lyon
In my latest episode of Optimising Your Brilliance, Deborah Lyon shares her daily routine, which enables her to get loads done AND take care of her wellbeing.
She pulls back the curtain on life as an author and businesswoman.
🎙️Listen Here estelleread.com/podcast/
📺 Watch here: youtube.com/@estelleread
🔎 Or search for the ‘Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast’
#DeborahLyon
#OptimisingYourBrilliance
#WomenInBusiness
#MindsetMatters
#Inspiration
In my latest episode of Optimising Your Brilliance, Deborah Lyon shares her daily routine, which enables her to get loads done AND take care of her wellbeing.
She pulls back the curtain on life as an author and businesswoman.
🎙️Listen Here estelleread.com/podcast/
📺 Watch here: youtube.com/@estelleread
🔎 Or search for the ‘Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast’
#DeborahLyon
#OptimisingYourBrilliance
#WomenInBusiness
#MindsetMatters
#Inspiration
In my latest episode of Optimising Your Brilliance, Deborah Lyon shares her daily routine, which enables her to get loads done AND take care of her wellbeing.
She pulls back the curtain on life as an author and businesswoman.
🎙️Listen Here estelleread.com/podcast/
📺 Watch here: youtube.com/@estelleread
🔎 Or search for the ‘Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast’
#DeborahLyon
#OptimisingYourBrilliance
#WomenInBusiness
#MindsetMatters
#Inspiration
How to Create a Morning Routine for a Productive Day with Deborah Lyon
You know those people who seem to do it all? My next guest does just that: five children, a partner, four dogs, and three books, plus she’s built a beautiful home on Lake Windermere. She now runs The Heaning Estate, a beautiful collection of dwellings she renovated, which you can stay in.
How does she make it all possible?
Deborah shares the secrets to her success: bravery, dream-driven ambition, and the discipline to take consistent steps – even when fear or doubt shows up.
Deborah’s daily routine and wellbeing priority prove you can do it all. In this episode, she pulls back the curtain on life as an author and businesswoman.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Deborah’s daily habits that boost productivity while safeguarding wellbeing.
💡 Real-life lessons from building a business, writing books, and balancing family life.
💡 Learn how embracing fear and discipline, can unlock new levels of creativity and business success.
Here’s to your shining!
Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker
Timestamps:
(00:00) Meet Deborah Lyon: Introduction and background
(01:27) The Heaning Estate and the art of doing it all
(06:46) How Estelle and Deborah met: A story of connection
(14:56) Daily routines, discipline, and the 20/20/20 rule
(24:21) Overcoming fear, imposter syndrome, and building belief
(35:17) Writing, business, and the power of passion and purpose
(47:19) Advice for aspiring writers and entrepreneurs
(62:00) Reflections, regrets, and advice to your 18-year-old self
(65:00) Closing thoughts and where to connect with Deborah
⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.
⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:
Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/...stelleRead/podcasts
⭐Follow Deborah Lyon or Buy Her Book:
www.linkedin.com/...n/deborahannedone/
Timewaif & The Roman Road: amzn.eu/d/cUADYiE
timewaif.com/
www.theheaning.com/
⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/
Instagram: www.instagram.com/estelle.at.beee
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee
Facebook: FB.com/EstelleAtBeee/
X: x.com/EstelleAtBeee
⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:
estelleread.com/resources/
⭐ Work with Estelle Read:
Find out more about our coaching programmes:
🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: estelleread.com/...coaching-programme/
🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: estelleread.com/...adership-programme/
⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:
Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH
⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:
Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r
⭐Disclaimer:
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
Coaching Conversations: Daniel Jarvis on Personal Growth & Leadership
Daniel Jarvis, a leader at Plastribution, a premier supplier of plastic raw materials, joins us for an in-depth look at growth, leadership, and sustainability. Having worked with Dan for seven years, I’ve witnessed his exponential development - from evolving roles to elevating his team.
In this candid interview, Dan dives into the plastic debate and sustainability, sharing insights honed through hands-on leadership and coaching credentials, including training as a coach and mental health first aider.
Discover how coaching informs every conversation, confront imposter syndrome and self-doubt, and unpack Dan’s core values, beliefs, and stress management strategies that boost performance. We also explore his new hobby that helps him unwind, teaching patience and resilience along the way.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Honest, transparent communication that strengthens clients and teams
💡 Practical self-development techniques, coaching impact, and growth mindset
💡 Ways to manage stress, overcome self-doubt, and sustain high performance
💡 How a leader’s values shape team culture and results
💡 The role of hobbies and balance in long-term resilience
Here’s to your growth and success!
Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker
Timestamps:
(00:00) Welcome & Introduction by Estelle Read
(01:04) Meet Dan Jarvis: His Role at Plastribution
(05:30) The Importance of Sustainability in Plastics
(12:15) The Value of Honesty and Fairness in Business
(20:00) Coaching and Mentoring in the Workplace
(28:45) Gardening as a Metaphor for Patience and Growth
(36:00) Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Seeking Self-Validation
(45:00) Final Thoughts: Optimising Performance and Success
⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.
⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:
Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/...stelleRead/podcasts
⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/
Instagram: www.instagram.com/estelle.at.beee
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee
Facebook: FB.com/EstelleAtBeee/
X: x.com/EstelleAtBeee
⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:
estelleread.com/resources/
⭐ Work with Estelle Read:
Find out more about our coaching programmes:
🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: estelleread.com/...coaching-programme/
🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: estelleread.com/...adership-programme/
⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:
Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH
⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:
Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r
⭐Disclaimer:
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
Voices at the Top: Sarah Walker-Smith’s Leadership Revolution
I struggled to pick one soundbite from Sarah Walker-Smith's interview - there were so many. Sarah is the CEO of Shakespeare Martineau and the only female, non-lawyer CEO in the legal top 55. She was recently named as the UK’s most influential legal CEO on social media.
A strategist with a background in accounting, marketing, and branding, Sarah embodies authentic, inclusive leadership and a relentless focus on unlocking people’s potential. The conversation explores her approach to navigating industry challenges, maintaining a positive mindset, and driving collaboration and fairness to fuel success.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Authentic leadership and inclusion as competitive advantages
💡 Emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and resilient leadership
💡 Stress management and sustaining a positive mindset under pressure
Here’s to your growth and brilliance!
Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker
Timestamps:
(00:00) Welcome & Introduction by Estelle Read
(01:04) Meet Sarah Walker Smith: Breaking Barriers in the Legal Sector
(03:15) The Power of Authentic Leadership
(08:30) Navigating Challenges: The Pandemic Experience
(15:00) Achievements and Milestones: Reflecting on Success
(22:45) The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership
(30:00) Managing Stress and Finding Balance
(40:15) The Role of Inclusion and Fairness in Business
(50:00) Sarah's Insider Secret: Just Be Yourself
(55:00) Closing Thoughts & How to Connect
⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.
⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:
Listen on your favourite podcast platform here: estelleread.com/podcast/ or watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/...stelleRead/podcasts
⭐Follow Sarah Walker-Smith:
On LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/...lker-smith-4708a5b
On Twitter: @pgwalkersmith.
⭐Follow Estelle Read:
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/
Instagram: www.instagram.com/estelle.at.beee
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeee
Facebook: FB.com/EstelleAtBeee/
X: x.com/EstelleAtBeee
⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:
estelleread.com/resources/
⭐ Work with Estelle Read:
Find out more about our coaching programmes:
🌟The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: estelleread.com/...coaching-programme/
🌟The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: estelleread.com/...adership-programme/
⭐Buy Estelle Read’s Bestselling Book:
Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH
⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog:
Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r
⭐Disclaimer:
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How do I handle this difficult conversation and what do I say because I fear rejection?
Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay. I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.
Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out as a gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out.
He shares his pivotal identity moments and how he learned to belong and become the best version of himself.
He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy and successful work-life.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover how childhood experiences and family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to break free from limiting beliefs.
💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, and building a supportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.
💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, and redefining what success means to you.
Content warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health challenges. If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t suffer alone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
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How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How do I handle this difficult conversation and what do I say because I fear rejection?
Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay. I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.
Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out as a gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out.
He shares his pivotal identity moments and how he learned to belong and become the best version of himself.
He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy and successful work-life.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover how childhood experiences and family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to break free from limiting beliefs.
💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, and building a supportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.
💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, and redefining what success means to you.
Content warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health challenges. If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t suffer alone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How do I handle this difficult conversation and what do I say because I fear rejection?
Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay. I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.
Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out as a gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out.
He shares his pivotal identity moments and how he learned to belong and become the best version of himself.
He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy and successful work-life.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover how childhood experiences and family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to break free from limiting beliefs.
💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, and building a supportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.
💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, and redefining what success means to you.
Content warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health challenges. If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t suffer alone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#MentalHealthMatters
How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How do I handle this difficult conversation and what do I say because I fear rejection?
Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay. I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.
Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out as a gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out.
He shares his pivotal identity moments and how he learned to belong and become the best version of himself.
He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy and successful work-life.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover how childhood experiences and family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to break free from limiting beliefs.
💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, and building a supportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.
💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, and redefining what success means to you.
Content warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health challenges. If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t suffer alone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#Authenticity
#Resilience
#Belonging
#MentalHealthMatters
How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How do I handle this difficult conversation and what do I say because I fear rejection?
Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay. I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.
Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out as a gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out. He shares his pivotal identity moments and how he learned to belong and become the best version of himself. He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy and successful work-life.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover how childhood experiences and family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to break free from limiting beliefs.
💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, and building a supportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.
💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, and redefining what success means to you.
Content warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health challenges. If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t suffer alone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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#Belonging
#MentalHealthMatters
How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
Content warning: This episode discusses suicide and mental health challenges.
Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How do I handle this difficult conversation and what do I say because I fear rejection?
Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay. I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply.
Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out as a gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out. He shares his pivotal identity moments and how he learned to belong and become the best version of himself. He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy and successful work-life.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Discover how childhood experiences and family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to break free from limiting beliefs.
💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, and building a supportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.
💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, and redefining what success means to you.
If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t suffer alone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.
Here’s to your health and wellbeing ❤️.
Estelle Read
Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker
Timestamps:
(00:00) Welcome & Introduction by Estelle Read
(01:04) Neil Jinks Returns: Why This Conversation Matters
(01:23) Highlights: Identity, Belonging, and Overcoming Adversity
(03:13) Diving Deeper: Childhood, Family, and Self-Discovery
(06:40) The Emotional Journey: Coming Out & Finding Acceptance
(13:23) Turning Points: Seeking Help and Embracing Change
(19:44) Building the Alliance Network: Creating Community
(24:03) Limiting Beliefs, Success, and Taking Risks
(33:04) Practical Tools: Anchors, Affirmations, and Growth Mindset
(44:16) Giving Back: Philanthropy, Minimalism, and the Power of Support
(52:48) Final Thoughts & How to Connect
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As a leader or business owner, do you ever find yourself running out of ideas for driving business growth?
And are your bored of, or in need of, some non-AI, business development inspiration?
Daniel Jarvis, a Product Group Manager at Plastribution, an organisation renowned for their innovation, have ripped up the rule book on how to develop deeper client relationships, which ordinarily take months to nurture.
What Daniel and his fellow leaders created, sounded like so much fun! Not only that, but they also saved time and money.
Daniel’s insights underscore the importance of human connection but also how agile his business is when it comes to decision making. He shares practical tips on how to do this.
We did discuss AI too – it’s hard to avoid it, but it’s always interesting to hear how other businesses are adapting and using it.
Finally, Daniel was candid about how he overcame a fear, which created a mental shift and transformed his life in an instant.
What You Will Learn:
💡 Practical innovative strategies which drive business performance
💡 The importance of not letting a fear fester and how to overcome it, so that you lead a better life
💡An alternative approach to self-care for leaders, which returns you to a state of mind akin to child-like wonder
Here’s to your shining!
You can hear the full episode on your favourite platform by searching for or asking your smart speaker to, ‘Play the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast'.
Alternatively, watch over on YouTube. See the link in my bio 👆 or details below ⬇️.
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